When you are touring an assisted living facility for a loved one, you should ask questions, explore the property with a critical eye and talk with the staff. You want to ensure that your loved one will be well taken care of and that they will be happy during the duration of their stay. If you have browsed through brochures, you have to check that the reality does indeed look like the pictures in the marketing materials. Here are three red flags to watch out for when you're picking out an assisted living facility.
Avoided or Unanswered Questions
As you view the property in person, ask questions. You want to know how many staff members are on per shift, the kind of credentials they have and if they can handle your loved one's condition. You want to know the steps involved in the admission process, the kind of patients already at the facility and a breakdown of the fees, too. According to After 50 Living, if you notice some or all of these kinds of questions are avoided or unanswered by the staff, it should raise a red flag. While you might come across a new staff member who does not have all the answers, there should be someone who can help when you are in the process of making such an important decision.
History of Violations
According to Assisted Living Center, information regarding a facility having outstanding compliance violations or complaints can be found by checking with the agencies responsible for overseeing these reports. Disciplinary action is a red flag because it means the facility is not in compliance with industry standards. Seeing repeated offenses is a good reason for you to cross that facility off your list simply because you do not know if your loved one will be properly cared for or safe. Whether it is lack of staff, medical equipment or cleanup, these things pose a risk.
You Have a Bad Feeling
While you are checking out the assisted living facility, according to Boomer Bloomer, it’s a good idea to do a gut-check. If you are not sure if this is the facility for your loved one, it is OK. You can seek reassurance before making up your mind. If you don't feel good about a place, keep searching for an assisted-living facility that you feel 100% confident about.
Picking an assisted living facility is a task that should not be taken lightly. Most facilities are well-staffed and genuinely care for their patients. It is OK to ask questions, tour the property and speak with staff members before you make a decision.
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(BPT) - Caring for someone with Alzheimer’s or other dementias is exceptionally demanding, and especially challenging.
A recent survey by the Alzheimer’s Association indicates many caregivers are not getting the help and support they need — 84 percent of caregivers say they would like more support in caring for someone with Alzheimer’s, especially from family members.
“Too many people are shouldering the caregiving burden alone,” says Ruth Drew, director of information and support services at the Alzheimer’s Association. “Many people want or would welcome help, but they are reluctant or just too overwhelmed to ask.”
Tips for supporting a caregiver
Providing help and support to caregivers can be easier than most people think. Even little acts can make a significant difference, Drew says. The Alzheimer’s Association offers these suggestions:
Learn: Educate yourself about Alzheimer’s disease — its symptoms, its progression and challenges facing caregivers. The more you know, the easier it will be to find ways to help.
Build a team: Organize family and friends who want to help. The Alzheimer's Association Care Team Calendar is a free, personalized online tool that allows helpers to sign up for specific tasks, such as preparing meals, providing rides or running errands.
Give a break: Spend time with the person with dementia, allowing the caregiver a chance to run errands, go to their own doctor’s appointment or engage in an activity that helps them recharge. Even one hour can provide the caregiver some relief.
Check in: Many caregivers report feeling isolated or alone; make a phone call to check in, send a note or stop by for a visit.
Tackle the to-do list: Ask for a list of errands that need to be done. Pick up groceries or dry cleaning, or even offer to shuttle kids to and from activities.
Be specific and be flexible: Open-ended offers of support (“Call me if you need anything,” or “Let me know if I can help.”) may be well-intended, but are often dismissed. Be specific in your offer (“I’m going to the store, what do you need?”). Continue to let the caregiver know that you are there and ready to help.
Join the fight: Honor a person living with the disease and their caregiver by supporting the Alzheimer’s cause. Volunteer at your local Alzheimer’s Association office or participate in fundraising events.
“It’s a mistake to assume caregivers have everything under control,” Drew says. “Most caregivers can use and would appreciate help. No one can do everything, but each of us can do something.”
To learn more about Alzheimer’s disease and ways you can support families and people living with the disease, visit www.alz.org, the website of the Alzheimer’s Association.
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