Amy Blankson is the CEO of Fearless Positivity and author of The Future of Happiness. She believes that “no matter where your baseline for happiness is today, you can always increase your overall happiness level.” In this article, Blankson offers some insight into simple ways you can inject positivity into your day.
(BPT) - Work demands paired with family demands make modern life extremely busy. Meetings, deadlines, housework, kids' homework, practice and much more all vie for your time. What's the secret to keeping on top of it all? Research shows the power of positivity can work wonders in managing stress, staying productive and boosting happiness.
Four out of five people agree positive thinking can help improve their lives and start the morning off on a positive note, according to a recent survey of American workers to gain insight into the impact of positivity in the workplace conducted by The Original Donut Shop Coffee. The good news is that a resounding 88% of Americans consider themselves positive people, but they think there is room for improvement. In fact, 69% wish they could be even more positive!
“Positive individuals are three times more creative, 31% more productive, and 23% less fatigued,” says Amy Blankson, CEO of Fearless Positivity and author of “The Future of Happiness.” “No matter where your baseline for happiness is today, you can always increase your overall happiness level.”
Blankson offers some insight into simple ways you can inject positivity into your day:
Set intentions early
Take a moment to shift your focus in the morning. What do you want to get out of your day? It’s so easy to fall prey to the tyranny of urgency. Hold the emails, texts, calls and messages and spend just 2 minutes grounding yourself in a positive practice like meditating or journaling. You'll set yourself up for greater happiness in the long run.
If you feel like you don't have the time or discipline to keep a gratitude journal, try looking for a "gratitude trigger." For instance, every time you stop at a red light, say one thing you are grateful for. This habit is great to pass time on commutes and is also a good practice to share with your children when they are in the car with you.
Think to the future
Try saying "future-forward gratitudes" in the morning. These are the things you are excited about for the day ahead, such as a meeting, lunch or special project. This practice helps prime you for positivity during the day and gives you an anchor point for reflection at the end of the day.
While more people are working from home, 45% of them consider themselves a positive person versus 75% of people who work in the office, according to the survey. One way to stay connected and spread positivity with coworkers when you’re not in the office is by taking a few minutes each day to text, email or call a coworker to thank them for something they did.
Move beyond off days
Don't get hung up when you have a negative day. The most important part of creating a new habit is having the courage to restart when you have an off day. Happiness is not a state of mind; it's a mindset that develops over time. The best way to elevate your mindset is by training your brain to look for positive information in the world around you that you might have missed.
Pay it forward
Individuals who pay it forward through praise and recognition express that they have greater feelings of happiness, satisfaction and relatedness. However, even more importantly, both givers and receivers inspire others to want to give, which creates a powerful network effect.
Nearly seven in 10 people agree they have a co-worker that is very positive and helps them get through the workday, and almost 75% said they often receive appreciation from their coworkers, according to the survey. If you have someone who is always brightening your day, you can show gratitude by nominating them for a chance to win some great prizes.
Here's what you need to do: Fans can visit brewpositivity.com between Oct. 28 and Nov. 22 to nominate a colleague for a chance to have their positivity rewarded. Twenty-five individuals will have a chance to win $200 and a one-year supply of The Original Donut Shop Coffee. For the kind nomination, the nominator will also have a chance to receive a one-year supply of The Original Donut Shop Coffee!
The divorce rate in the United States is going down, but that could be because many people are deciding not to get married. However, if you want the happily ever after that exists within a married partnership, it is possible. You just have to put in the work to have a long, happy marriage.
Work on Communication
To stay married to someone happily through the years, you have to know how to communicate with your spouse. Not everyone communicates in the same way, but there are ground rules for healthy communication that can help your marriage stay strong. Avoid raising your voice or name-calling and don't use passive-aggressive remarks to get a point across. These strategies are less about communicating and more about fault-finding. Figure out the best way for you and your partner to communicate effectively, and then stick to it. Remember, communication is as much about listening as it is talking.
Resolve Any Issues That May Lead to a Future Divorce
You and your partner should work to resolve any issues that could lead to a divorce before getting married in order to achieve a long, happy marriage. Though we all come with baggage, minimizing the baggage can make a big difference in the success of your marriage. Take the time to truly know yourself before attempting to enter a lifetime partnership with someone else. This means understanding issues you need to resolve so that they don't create barriers in your marriage. It also means exploring the parts of yourself you may not like so that you can practice accepting who you are and changing what you believe is truly not acceptable.
Learn How to Forgive
You aren't perfect, and your partner isn't either. Know that going into marriage and be prepared to forgive each other. Over the years, each of you will grow and change, and that doesn't come without some missteps that are challenging to overcome. Learn to celebrate the differences you have. While there is behavior that should not be accepted in a marriage, many common marital complaints are normal and a result of being around your partner so much. Know that this is the person who will see you at your worst, and you will see them the same way. Leave plenty of room for grace, and don't hold grudges.
Marriage is a journey that takes work and lots of love. It is possible to have a lasting, happy marriage if you're willing to put in the effort.
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